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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not an ap but a nanny. I’ve had jobs where the parents won’t pay for anything. Which is fine and very doable. But I know upfront. We pack lunches, go to parks, the library and play dates at the pool . [/quote] The difference though is that you usually know the area because you live here, or you have a friends network already. An au pair doesn't know anyone when she first gets here, so to not be able to do things with other au pairs in her peer group would not be fair. I agree with what the PP's have said. Pay this time but ask that she take lunch out on future and try and do the free stuff when possible. But be ok with the odd activity that may cost money.[/quote]
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