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[quote=Anonymous]We have a lovely ap who's only been here for 2 weeks. She's independent and sociable. Last weekend, she was in the Barnes and Nobles at Mosaic by herself when 2 young women approached her. They complimented her clothes and eye glasses, asked where she'd gotten them, and then chatted away. They all exchanged phone numbers and even made plans to meet up for lunch next week. She told me about it and said she believed they are really nice people. I said as long as you meet up in a public place it's probably ok.

Then last night we all went to Mosaic again and AP was hanging out at Target alone. Once again, another young woman approached her and paid her similar compliments on her clothes and eye glass frame, and they chatted for a while before exchanging phone numbers. At this point, I'm really starting to feel uncomfortable. My scam radar is going off. Is that how young people meet others these days? The similarities in their approaches are what really concerns me. I means I think our AP is nicely dressed for an early 20s woman, but to elicit this level of reaction from total strangers? My instinct is telling me something is off. At the same time, she's really happy to be meeting people and I don't want to stifle that.

Have you heard of anything like this? Am i over reacting? [/quote]

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