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[quote=Anonymous]Hello,
I wanted to quit with my nanny family. They were very nice before. Therefore, I wanted to do the same with them. Just few examples, the mom was home and didn’t need someone until one month later. I was coming sometimes for few hours or less than 10 hours but they were paying me. So, I started to clean up their home, doing the family laundry every day, baking and cooking at least two or three times a week. The problem is, the DD has a brother who had kids so they started to giving me the kids ( 2) without paying me. Doing the brother groceries and so. Before, I started they ask me if I’m comfortable doing play date with his brother’s kids I said “yes” without knowing that they don’t have a nanny or I’m the one will stay with all 4 kids. Also, the family ‘s Parents come every month or other month. They told me that when their parents are around I would be off but no. Their parents eat left everything in the counter for me to clean up. They went into the fridge put everything out and make me clean it or the pantry. I have to do the family closet too. The family ate and leave in the counter. They cook over the week and left all the pots for me to clean it. Before, I was doing it to be fair because they could tell me to come twice or three times a week but they were paying me. I don’t like to take advantage on people to receive money without working. However, it was one kid and the mb was pregnant. Now she is pregnant again with the third one. They also have a dog that I have to take for a walk once a day. They said if they travel I’m off but they want me to come in the morning to drop the dog to the sitter and clean their home. They supposed to have a cleaner who have to come every two week but they said when they travel she hasn’t come and I need to clean their home. I’m very resentful because I think it’s disrespectful to just throw things on me. I feel I’m working for two families for the pay of one. I was flexible because I lost my mom two years ago and they gave me two weeks off so I really wanted to show them how grateful I was. Sorry, for the typo and the spelling I speak Spanish. The mb grew up in Spain so she doesn’t really mind for the English because I speak Spanish to her and the kids. I need some advices how to quite without any drama and stay in the good relation with them for the kids. Also, they had a nanny who quit before me because she said nobody would take advantage of her and she is not a maid or housekeeper. Their old nanny friend told me that at the playground when I just started with them. It has been 3 years now I’m working for them. 
Thank you all for your time and all the grammar mistakes.[/quote]

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