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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2:12 has good advice, listen to her, not former AP who is suggesting you keep current AP until end of her term.  HF's needs change all the time.  Just be transparent .. wouldn't you rather your employer let you know that you were going to be out of job in 5 weeks as opposed to 2.   The agency should be willing to work with you too .. to let her be in the rematch pool until she finds a new HF. [/quote]

Jerk #2
I’m the poster who’s advice you don’t like
You don’t just send girls who don’t know anybody here and who come from thousands of miles away , you don’t just dump them
You made a commitment, a pretty serious one
Never heard of such a case before [/quote]

Hope name calling this PP makes you feel better.  You are either naive or being purposefully ignorant if you've really never heard of a host family having to leave the program.  Like one PP said, illness happens, job loss and becoming a SAHP happens, unexpectedly sometimes.   Rematch, happens.  It is quite possible OP didn't realize that her childcare needs would change so drastically., and provided she gives AP as much notice and opportunity to find a new HF as possible, she can still do right by AP and AP should be fine.  If she's a good AP, she'll likely have her choice of HFs.  [/quote]

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