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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, I am not sure about her giving out our address but that is something I have already planned to discuss with her. I am going to tell her that she is not permitted to give out our address or names to anyone. Also, no one is allowed in the house unless we have met them. This is all in our family handbook, but it's been a year since we reviewed it. She has never met a guy when she had my daughter, I do trust her on this. She does use our car. We did put in the family handbook that she couldn't have the car out overnight on work nights and that she needs to be home 8 hours before her shift, but I'm sure she has forgotten all of this. I've never thought I'd have to enforce these rules. I'm just honestly shocked and grossed out that all of sudden she is going out and having one night stands. My husband is questioning if she is depressed, but I don't think that is it. She has a lot of friends here. Her mom has been upset with her recently because she went to Disney and spent a lot of money. They have been fighting since then because her mom thinks she needs to save all of her money while she is here, and she is telling her mom she came here to experience America and not work with no fun. So maybe that is part of it? She is rebelling against her mom?

I feel conflicted because I think, okay I'll just not ask her about her dating life since I don't agree with it. But then I think do I really want this person under my roof for another year? Someone that (IMO) is being disrespectful to themselves and using really poor judgement? What if one of these guys beats the crap out of her? I'm the one that will have to deal with the aftermath. Ugh. Fingers crossed two one night stands and she has gotten it out of her system. [/quote]

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