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[quote=Anonymous]What?? You can give her a clothing store gift card, make it a positive thing for doing well and settling in. Then she'll buy whatever clothes she wants to with it, maybe they'll be what you're expecting or maybe she'll prioritize something else. If she's not keeping up with your kids or doing her job fully, you should start a conversation about that. But how she's dressed while working, especially if she's totally decent but not wearing what you would choose, isn't your decision to make. I've been on a hike in a foreign country that was extremely difficult for me, where the guide was wearing loafers and a sport jacket. It seemed crazy to me, but it was a cultural difference - no big deal.[/quote]
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