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[quote=Anonymous]We have an Au Pair that has been great. She has been with us for a year and we have signed on to keep her with us for another year. When she came, she had a boyfriend of 9 years back in her home country, but a few months ago they broke up. Seems to be a good thing that they broke up, I don't think from what she has said that they were a great match. So here she is in exciting America and newly single.... and she has found Tinder. I have no issues with her dating but I feel like she is going over board. She seems to be talking with at least 10-15 guys at a time. She has been going out at least 2 times a week with different guys, going to dinner, bowling etc. She has told me she isn't really interested in a boyfriend, but is just enjoying meeting people. Okay, I get it, I was young once. However this Sunday she went out didn't come home until Monday morning, 30 mins before her work time started. I asked her on Monday evening if she had stayed the night at a friends house and she told me no that she spent the night with a Tinder guy. I figured it was one she had met before but no, she had never met this guy, had just talked to him online for a week and then went to his house to have sex with him. She told me they were "safe." I expressed my concern and told her it wasn't really a good idea to go to some guys house that you had never met before, but I don't think she got it. I asked her if she was going to see the guy again and she said no, that she didn't really like him because he didn't talk enough?? So then she tells me she is going out with an completely different guy that evening. I asked her if she was going to meet him at a restaurant, and she said yes. I could tell she was lying by the way she said it. She leaves, and later I checked the location app we have set up, and sure enough she is now at some apartment near Washington DC. I assume she did the same thing, just went to this guys house to have sex with him.  So my question is, is this how the world works now? Is this normal? I don't want to parent my Au Pair, but this is bothering me. I am not a wait until you are married kind of person, but I would not have done this when I was single. Am I being a prude? I really don't feel like this is safe and I don't want the phone call at 1am of come rescue me. This makes me question her judgement. Am I over thinking it? She I just never ask her about her dating anymore if it bothering me? [/quote]

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