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[quote=Anonymous]As first time HF we had an au pair who at 5 months we discovered had lied on her application, engaged in some negligent and illegal behavior, and decided to rematch. APIA told us they were sending her home but passed her on to another family like a pedophile priest. We finished the year with rematch au pair who was competent but was at the end of her 2nd year and had to go home. Now we have a new au pair coming after a long interview process. We find it hard to get excited because we were so wounded by the behavior of the first au pair. We had invested so much in making our first au pair relationship work and trusted her so much - that it was really heartbreaking when it didn't work out. Tips? We know we have to buck it up and be adults and not punish the new au pair for the first one's errors in judgment. [/quote]
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