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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just have an open and honest discussion with her. Tell her how hard the last minute stuff is for your family. But understand it is unbearably painful to lose your mother and there are always things to tend to. I doubt that your nanny is trying to scam you, OP. [/quote] No, of course she isn't! I know that, and I understand how she's feeling. That's why I just don't know how to address this. I feel like it would be interpreted as invalidating her grief to tell her, oh hey I'm stressed about work. I'm sure stuff like that seems pretty trivial to her now. I just don't have any idea how to go about this. The last thing I want to do is offend her.[/quote]
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