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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been having what seems like non-stop issues with this family for the last 3 months after some changes in my personal life occurred and caused me to adjust my schedule; I NEVER had any issues with them and they’ve NEVER had any issues or discussions with me about performance, being reliable, etc prior to my adjustment.  I have been with them since their daughter was 6 months old and she just turned 3. Since my changes, the family has been off, complaining and I even detect attitudes- mainly from the mom. One day she is acting nice and talkative and then the next day she barely speaks. We were professional, respectful and overall had a great relationship. They have no family in the area, so I was the person they leaned on for extra hands outside of contract hours. I’ve spent the night over their house so they could spend extra time out (no overnight fee) and their daughter has been to my home on a few occasions. When their daughters first bday was approaching, we talked about it and I was asked to come and I did. Her second bday, we talked about it prior to and they were leaning to not doing anything and they didn’t. Now her third bday has come and I didn’t hear one word about it until yesterday and this is what she said “I sent out invitations for Larla’s bday party and just noticed I left you off- I’ll add you.” Now, I don’t know if it bothers me that she forgot to invite me, someone who has cared for their daughter for almost 3 years or that she TOLD me that she forgot me. It came across as “I didn’t invite you but you can come.”  I honestly feel like the only reason she even texted me because I am babysitting this weekend and those kids I’m watching, were invited and their parents won’t be around to take them (I’m not for sure because I still don’t know when her bday party is or where).

Would this bother you? I’m only with them until school starts in the fall, so I just suck it up but it’s so unfortunate that our relationship has gone down the drain and for what? I didn’t do anything to them, they still go to work and their daughter is in good hands when they are not around.

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The invitations were sent out a week ago. [/quote]

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