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[quote=Anonymous]Don't be surprised if CCAP frames the safety issue as a "mismatch in expectations"... In terms of staying positive, just keep in mind that rematch is very hard....make sure the kids know that the AP is not leaving because of something they did (sometimes the kids may internalize it and blame themselves). Make sure you are super clear with AP during the 2 week period what the expectations are. since it's a safety issue, I assume she is no longer working....make it clear--will she be permitted to use the car, have a phone, etc? Make sure that she is still nice to the kids (our rematch AP would completely ignore my 3 year old daughter until I told the AP ithat if she's not happy that she's in our home then she needs to learn how to fake it in front of the child).[/quote]
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