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[quote=Anonymous]We have been hosting 11 years. We do not extend and drop that into our conversation around months 4-5 so that there are no expectations otherwise. We start looking for our new ap when ap has been with us about five months, and I just make sure to tell ap that we would appreciate if he or she would take to any candidates we end up liking. We have had one ap who extended with another family but there were no hard feelings because we had been clear from the beginning that extending wasn’t an option. I would just be really clear and up front that you’ll be looking for a new ap and will happily help her find a family for her second year if she wants to stay. [/quote]
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