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[quote=Anonymous]Your mistake was basically telling her she could stay for free without working. Yes, it’s completely entitled to think she should get the same privileges as during the year, but if you don’t make the boundaries clear, the thought will never cross her mind. Are you letting her stay on your phone plan and driving your car too? Maybe you need to think about more than just food. We let our au pair come back and stay after her travel month, but DH told AP that he took her off the insurance at the end of the year, so she would not be able to drive our cars those last few days. We let her stay on our family phone plan because she asked and offered to pay. Since she thought about it and was considerate, it was easy enough to give her the month of phone (without reimbursement).[/quote]
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