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[quote=Anonymous]I am a single mom of a 2nd grader and work full time. I have been using aftercare/sitters for years and it is doable but exhausting and leaves me with little downtime. I am now in a position where I can afford an au pair, but am wondering if it is the right solution or if I should just get more sitter hours. The problem with sitters has been difficulty finding them and some have been unreliable. I think an au pair might help give me more flexibility in my work hours and an occasional evening to get in some exercise. But I am worried about gaps in childcare. One thing I love about aftercare is that it is always there and I am not relying on just one person. I can't afford both an au pair and aftercare so if an au pair left me with any gaps I would mostly need to fill them myself. I know there is a lot more that goes into this decision, but I am looking for others' experience on this issue right now - what gaps do you typically need to fill in when you have an au pair? Is it mostly something that comes up when you need to rematch or find a new au pair, or are there other gaps I am not thinking of? I'm aware of the 45 hour/week limit and would mostly use the au pair for mornings and afterschool activities and care during the week, occasionally in the evening. [/quote]
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