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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You work two days a week. You have three other days to do your appointments. They hire child care so they can work. If you cannot provide care, they cannot work. You are unreasonable and not being professional. And, yes, you should be holding the baby. That is your only responsibility so what are you complaining about?[/quote] I work the other 3 days, which, they were aware of (even spoke to my other families as a reference)- “hence” why she said we would coordinate schedules in advance, #1. #2 if you read my post thoroughly, you could understand my frustration because she asked me to coordinate schedules, in advance, so she could work things out because she can be flexible when given ample notice. I gave her a TWO MONTHS NOTICE OF MY APPOINTMENT- how much more notice could I have given. When I sent her the date via email the evening before my next shift, that was her response. So, how did we go from we can work this if she knows in advance? I also told her I WOULD ROTATE DAYS SO THE APPOINTMENTS DO NOT ALWAYS FALL ON A DAY I CARE FOR HER SON, which is why my appointment did not interfere with our schedule for the month of MAY! ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME HERE NOW? #3, do you think it’s healthy for a baby to be held all day long? And when I said held, I mean while you stand up and walk all around the house holding and bouncing him? I have no problems holding a soothing him but yes, all day is a problem and unhealthy! But we may have different views on that and that is totally fine. #4, I was nothing but nice to this family. She was out of line for calling me a liar and telling me my OB appointments are only 15 minutes. She knows nothing about my medical history because it’s none of her business. Are you in and out of appointments in 15 minutes? The way she went about things and the tone of the email was unprofessional and rude. She also gave no notice which is in MY contract that I had written up and she signed it- that’s how professional I am! [/quote] Read your post. You are nasty and belligerent. They need reliable child care. You are not reliable. You do not meet their needs. You are going to have more appointments as the pregnancy progresses. Yes, I have been in and out of doctors appointments in 15 minutes. It really depends on the doctor and staff. [/quote]
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