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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with everything above. But, there's no rule that you can't change your requirements as the situation changes (e.g,. you didn't realize when you set no curfew that she'd be out all night... you just assumed that she'd come home at a reasonable time and didn't think you needed to specify). By the way, we are on AP #4, and honestly, this is the first ap where I feel we've bonded as a family, and the experience is SO MUCH BETTER. AP doesn't hang with us on weekends, but she will have dinner with us Sunday nights sometimes, or stop and play with the kids for a few minutes here and there when she's coming or going and the kids are in the living room. Because we've bonded with her, I am much more invested in her having a great overall experience, and am also much more sympathetic and understanding when she makes genuine mistakes or if she needs flexibility on her end.[/quote]
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