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[quote=Anonymous]Your gut instinct is right - don't extend. The problem is how to handle her disappointment when you tell her. I'd delay a while but tell her soon enough for her to try to find a local extension to stay near BF. Also, keep in mind the high chance of a break up with said BF so be ready to deal with decision to depart early. A local BF was actually GREAT for us with our last AP because she behaved very well and it didnt change our family dynamic or her flexibility, BTW, so know that its not simply the fact of the BF but how she is handling. In our case, the BF worked alot of nights so she wasnt with him on week nights. [/quote]
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