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[quote=Anonymous]You should have had a curfew before she started, it is kind of weird now, please make sure you fix this for the next AP. Usually my curfew is you have to be there 8h before your shift beginning. I think what you describe is normal when they get a boyfriend but you have the right to be annoyed.

Some families love having their houses for themself on weekend and some don't care if the AP is otherwise responsible. She shouldn't get annoyed if your schedule change because that is the reason most people get AP, for the flexibility.

My BIG advice to you don't extend with her. A lot of APs who meet their boyfriend here extend just to get a status, as soon their bf propose of whatnot they leave the family dry with not much notice. This has happened to 3 families around me in the last few months and it wasn't fun. She is just buying time until she get engaged. But her being out all the time is what I have seen happen when AP gets a bf here and most family don't mind.

Good luck[/quote]

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