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[quote=Anonymous]We are in the middle of our first Au Pair experience and I wanted to see if I can get feedback/advice. The biggest challenge we are facing is that our AuPair is gone every minute she is not working. She is taking classes 4 nights a week and then staying out late after and the moment I walk in on Friday she normally goes upstairs gets ready, goes out, and  doesn’t come back until Monday morning some days. She is pretty responsible so am I wrong to be frustrated that she is never here? If my schedule changes, she is accommodating but seems annoyed. She has a boyfriend so she is with him majority of the time and they met shortly after she arrived. I was hoping to gain a member of the family and I mentioned that in the interview process numerous times. I just feel like it isn’t what we signed up for and at this point we could go back to a nanny. But I don’t know if I am just being unrealistic. I have recently mentioned I would like her to be home by 11 on nights she has to help with the kids (our school starts earlier than most so she has to be up by 6 am). She has since not came home one Sunday night and then told me she felt weird about me giving her a curfew. She wants to extend with us next year but honestly I am worried it may not be the best thing for our family. [/quote]

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