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[quote=Anonymous]People move all the time.  The agency is used to it as well.  They definitely need to know where she is and check out the home.  She must have her own room -- rules apply even in short terms.

She can help pack/unpack up the kids things, but not the general house.  She can watch the kids while you move.

I think you should think about bonuses, but I think 1000 is a bit much.  But... It may be wise to say, we know this will be a lot to handle and we plan a bonus at the end of the year when we have made it through the moves. Maybe toss her an extra week vacation or something if you can swing it?? I would not tell her a total amount of money up front.  Your not sure if she is a unicorn or a dud just yet.

Another idea... small bonuses when she helps out -- gift cards for starbucks or target or something.  Or lots of cultural activities so she feels like she is getting something good in exchange for the pain.  Moving is stressful for everyone.

Also, will your temporary place be near the new home? She may fear losing friends with each move so a liberal use of car policy in the area around the moves would be helpful.[/quote]

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