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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, the parents will freak. But you are correct to leave them. Tell them about someone in your family who just had a accident and they need your help immediately. Don’t give them any notice unless you can afford to be let go immediately. They’ll be so vindictive that they’ll want to get back at you for resigning.

Congratulations and good luck on your new job!
No nanny should tolerate dishonest employers.
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No notice? WTF is wrong with you people?!?  I see this all the time. Be professional, even if your boss isn’t. Do the right thing in AL aspects of life, regardless of what others do!  And don’t lie to get yourself out of a an uncomfortable situation!  And PP is supposed to teach children to be good humans??? Wow!

OP, have you previously brought any issues up? What are the issues and how long have you been working for the family?  I think those things help us to give you advice. Personally, I like to live my life in a way that I can feel great about the kind of person I am and the values I hold, therefore I think PP’s advice is complete shit! At first, keep it simple and tell them (including in a written letter) that Friday the whatever, will be your last day and that you will miss your charges tremendously and that you’d love to stay in touch and are available for occasional sitting if they are interested. If they press, which they will, your answer, in my opinion, would depend on the issues you’re having and how far you want to delve into that. [/quote]

Thank you very much I love your advice!
It totally agree with you, but in some situations I wonder why we owe them anything.
They know exactly I need certain amount of hours every week, they’ve been good for most of the part. 
But since thanksgiving they give me times off unpaid without notice, will text me the night before. 
Or they’ll go on vacation without paying me, like next month they planned a vacation without pay for me. 
I’m tired of asking about these things. 
Also they keep changing my schedule so I can’t get another job, really annoying.
I was scared to quit but now found a new job yay with vacation pay and guaranteed hours. 
Also, the mom is very aggressive person, never happy, ALWAYS in a bad mood,
I’ve never seen a person like that. 
Is never around the kids and if she is, all she does is yell and complain, verbally abusive. 
Also threw toys before and slammed doors 
Thank you![/quote]

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