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[quote=Anonymous]Talk to her OP.

"Anne, can we talk?  I feel like recently you have short and distant with us.  And you have made several references to hoping our son will be ok.  Is there something we should talk about?

Make the point that obviously you are both putting your son's well-being ahead of any other priorities and you and your ex are working together to make this divorce as pain free as possible for your child (which hopefully you are doing.)  Also make the point that she has provided excellent care for years, and that she is critical to ensuring that stability and consistency are maintained for your son.  She needs to feel that she is valued, respected, and important to the whole family as it evolves.  She also needs to understand that you and your child's father are working together, and that you expect her cooperation.

She may have valid concerns about introducing your son to new partners at this point.  Clearly you're hearing that from other folks here, and you need to be prepared to consider reasonable concerns.  But bottom line she works for you and needs to work WITH you in this critical time.[/quote]

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