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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Something very similar happened to me, OP. No goodbyes with the child. No nothing. 
If only these self-absorbed parents had a clue, [b]they wouldn't damage their own child like this.[/b] It's so unnecessary. And [b]the disastrous consequences can last a lifetime.[/b] [/quote]

To be fair, my mother fired nannies left and right, without having them say goodbye to me, and it was not a big deal to me. There were no "disastrous consequences". 
While I'm doing things differently with my children and their nanny, I was not damaged by having nannies leave abruptly. Let's find a way to be kind to OP without being dramatic. [/quote]

“Nannies”.  You wrote “nannies” as in multiple caregivers.  That is very different than having one loving nanny from birth who suddenly disappears.  Having that one singular figure you depended on and loved simply vanish sets up an inherent memory of adult distrust.  Someone who loves and cares for you every day basically can abandon you at anytime.

No drama - simply proven fact.  Like the children in orphanages who suffer long term attachment disorder after just the first year of their life without conscious memory.  [/quote]

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