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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One more thing: in a long-term nanny position, I really do love your kids as much as you do. And they love me. But I can never, ever replace you in their hearts, so don’t sweat it if you kid’s bond with the nanny seems too close. They ALWAYS know who their family really is.[/quote] +1000000 This is amazing, I love it! You totally nailed it. [/quote] I agree completely. However, for a long term nanny who has been with your child since birth and with whom your child has a bond - do not simply fire the nanny and cut her out of your child’s life. This creates a deep distrust in the child and will cause trust and attachment problems later. Rather make the change slowly. As much as you may want to be done with the nanny, think of your child first. Your child never understood that his nanny was an employee - he say her as an adult who loved him. Honor your child’s relationship. [/quote]
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