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[quote=Anonymous]I had to bump this post. I'm truly exhausted, and my body is starting to feel the toll of constantly being on and stressed over what else to I need to address before the day has ended.

We're in year 4. Our first 2 au pairs (1 extended) were super independent. Which was good - and not so good. Good in that when they were done working, I could come home have a few moments with my kids alone, and then be able to unwind after I put them down for bed. Not so good, in the case of 1 of them, that when we had big family events, and had them there, they seemed to feel so awkward and not comfortable - despite our regular talks, and time spent together when working.

Our new au pair needs a lot of attention, and I'm hoping it will fade. But, I'm concerned that despite me being really clear about needing quiet time after work - or needing one on one time with the kids, she still interrupts that. She's even turned down plans with new friends, so she can stay home and watch a movie with us. And this is after multiple snow days at home, us all together, watching movie after movie. I need a break to recharge, and to be rested enough to there for her, my kids, and my coworkers. I've been so drained, and in horrible mood all week because I haven't had a minute alone.[/quote]

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