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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just have a conversation with her. Tell her it's not fair to you to be paying for 100% of the trips for YOUR AP to ALWAYS go visit the friend (wherever they are). They need to meet in the middle or have the friend come to her around 50% of the time. If she does not voluntarily choose to reduce the wear and tear on your car, you will be forced to place limitations on her use.

You might need a tracker, because this might lead to lying and doing it anyway. [b]You also should decide to do something randomly on a weeknight that makes the car "unavailable" for her use[/b] because car privileges do not mean she has to go out EVERY SINGLE NIGHT like it sounds she's doing to visit her friend.[/quote]

This is so obnoxious.  If OP doesn't want AP to have access to the car every night, she needs to make that clear and make a rule about it (which, ideally, would have been disclosed during matching) not play passive aggressive games to make the car unavailable.[/quote]

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