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[quote=Anonymous]My employer “lovingly”, jokingly, blames me for coddling her child and doing too much for her.  But, in all honesty, she is the one who coddles my charge.  I am really so tired of taking the blame for something I swear I am not doing.

Example:  when my charge is with me, it’s my charge’s job to put her clothes into the hamper and pick up her toys.  When I get to work the next morning, my charge’s clothes, towel and wash cloths are all over the bathroom floor.

I taught my charge to dress herself.  My employer dresses her.  Then when the preschool says that my charge won’t put on her own shoes when asked, my employer tells the teachers, “she has a nanny who does everything for her”.

My charge is an easy cryer and basically cries instead of tantrums.  I talk to my charge in a very neutral tone but don’t fix things for her.  Her mother is all over her.  The preschool teachers said this was an issue in class and they basically do what I do and let her work it out.  My employer tells ME to be tougher with her!

We are headed for a showdown here.  My employers projection is fricking off the charts.  I am not great with Croatian but I don’t think any of the crap being projected on me is reality.

Vent, I guess.  Unless anyone can help me politely and politically tell me how best to address this. [/quote]

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