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[quote=Anonymous]I was a nanny for a family for over five years. We parted ways on great terms. It was just time ss kids were starting elementary school & MB changed careers & only we working 20 hours a week. So family didn't need childcare anymore. The first couple months former MB texted with updates & sent pics[flash]. We both reached out so kiddos & I could visit. By the 3rd month former MB started contacting me less & seemed annoyed when I contacted her. I sent email expressing my feelings & how much I missed her family. I expressed how I hoped I could remain in the kiddos lives. Former MB was a little cold basically said I was no longer missed & they have moved on. I wrote back that I would give their family space & would respect what she thinks is best for her family. I also let her know I didn't agree with her & I didn't see any harm in still being as loving person in her kids lives. As I have never heard being loved my to many people. After that my former MB invited me over three times in the following three weeks. I never contacted her just responded to her invites. After that I started contacting again to see kiddos. I would wait two weeks between visits before reaching out. The kiddos are always super excited to see me. In the last 6 weeks I am always the one to reach out & invite kiddos over. I have been to their house in over six weeks. I know kiddos love seeing me & want to see me as they tell that when they visit. Should I continue to be reach out? Do I ask former MB why she never contacts me to visit or watch kiddos? I just feel so hurt! As I was told when I worked for them I was family & would always be a big part of their lives.  It's just so different than I thought thing would be. [/quote]

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