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[quote=Anonymous]I would like to say that the concern “this must have been in the works for a while” is not a reasonable one. Lots of items need to fall into place for a family to make such a decision (job offer, negotiations on the compensation, giving notice to the current employer, and whatever else). I would never share with a nanny the fact that I MIGHT be looking at new opportunities. I would also not share this with many friends or extended family, either.. The only time I would share with friends or coworkers is if I need their advice or that helps negotiations. This is a small world. It is possible information might reach one of the negotiating parties and have adverse impact. So there should be no expectation that a family will share such a big decision before it is final with anyone.[/quote]
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