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[quote=Anonymous]I'm writing this message in a bit of a state of shock. I had a conversation with DB and MB this morning and was told that they will be moving to Honolulu, HI this Spring because DB has a really great career opportunity there. MB will be working from home as usual. They've asked me to move with them and continue working for them there. I've been with this family as a live in for almost 3 years and this came as a complete shock to me. I had no idea any of this was going on or being considered.

They also said that when the kids, who are twins, start preschool next fall they will want me to convert to a nanny/housekeeper and take care of the house while the kids are in school.

I'm not really sure how to process all of this. In many ways, it seems like it could be an exciting adventure. I'm single and don't have any kids so there isn't really anything preventing me from moving and it could be really cool to get to live in Honolulu. I also really like the job and NF, and DB and MB both said they really like me and the kids really like me and they don't want to lose me.

But, I'm not sure how I feel about the fact that they didn't tell me this was being considered even though they clearly have known it was a possibility for at least a couple months. I'm also not sure how I feel about the changing job description for next fall. Although, I'm not opposed to doing cleaning and other house work - I do some now already - it's hard to know what the expectations will be like when I'm there. And, finally, this would involve moving really far from all my family and friends here on the east coast.

What would you think of this if you were in my place? How hard do you think it would be to start a new life there if I move with them?
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