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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly? Suck it up. You're responsible for feeding an AP. So, your girl sounds more like a "bro-pair" in levels of eating. Shop more at Aldi or Costco. How are you going to set boundaries? "Sorry, Larla, I think you eat too much. We're only going to provide meals and no snacks. Buy your own with your measly stipend." or "Sorry, Larla, I'm concerned about your weight because you've been eating everything in sight. You know, Americans tend to be on a perpetual diet. Why don't you try skipping snacks to avoid gaining 15lbs over the holidays?" Do you want her to buy a ton of junk food, hoard it in her room, and eat that instead so it keeps your pantry fuller? If you don't want her to eat all the leftovers or you're tired of cooking for her, you can say that. Don't say that you're not going to provide food or she needs to cut back on her eating.[/quote]
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