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[quote=Anonymous]I'd kick out her to the curb for both the smoking and the lying. If you matched with her on the assumption she's not a smoker, and not smoking is important to you, then that's enough -- the lying about an issue that she knew was an issue when you matched just compounds it.

I think you should walk back the "I'm OK with your smoking outside the house" -- if that's not what you said during matching, I don't think you should bend over backwards to avoid confrontation now.

It is not just a question of whether she smokes on her own time. It is well-documented that smokers bring third-hand smoke into the house or the car because it gets into their clothes. I am 100% not OK with first-, second-, or third-hand smoke in my house. An adult living on her own is perfectly free to smoke. An employee living in my house and caring for my kids is not free to smoke at any time, no matter where she smokes, because she is bringing toxic smoke residue into my house.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/expert-answers/third-hand-smoke/faq-20057791

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2018/05/09/third-hand-smoke-is-widespread-and-may-be-dangerous-mounting-evidence-shows/?utm_term=.5d630d56e7d4

http://www.center4research.org/third-hand-smoke/

https://no-smoke.org/smokefree-threats/thirdhand-smoke/[/quote]

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