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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would confront her again, give her another chance to come clean. If she tells you again that she doesn’t smoke, I would tell her that you saw the cigarettes when she opened her purse. Let her take it from there, see how she responds. I too would be more upset about the lying. [/quote] +1. And I'd tell her upfront that you were clear the fact that you're OK with her smoking off-duty, but you're not cool with lying. If she continues to deny, then you have a choice to make whether she can stay. Personally we screen for smokers because as PP said, I assume if they smoke out of the house, they're going to occasionally smoke near/in the house.[/quote]
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