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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are wrong about a few things here. First, your AP doesn't have to pick up your husband's mug. He does. The AP is not your servant. Today it's just one mug, tomorrow it'll be everybody's breakfast to clean up ... No, the AP doesn't have to walk the dog. You can hire a dog walker or ask her to do so and pay her $. You can ask her to cook for the whole family once or twice a week a simple dinner. That can be considered as being "part of the family". Just like taking the trash out. Indeed she is not part of your family but just an employee who gets $800 per month (very little "pay"), therefore you can't be demanding with her. There is no way she should dust your furniture or shovel snow![/quote]
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