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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  To answer your questions:

Our previous AP was with us for 2 years as an AP and then moved to an F1 visa to do her MBA, and we were her sponsors.  She watched the baby for extra cash, basically.  But she left (got married) when the baby was two months old.  She was with us for 3.5 years.

Then we got this AP.  And for the past year, she's been watching the baby on occasion when the joint kids are with me.  And watching the baby a lot more than we had described that she would when the joint kids are with him.  She's always done the baby watching when the kids are with me as a FAVOR.  She always understood that she had the option to say no.  In fact, once he asked her to do it on a weekend day and she said no.

But apparently, his opinion has changed -- he doesn't feel it is her option to say no to watching the baby if she is available to do so (even if she happens to be with the joint kids).  They needed her this week because the new wife had conference calls, the baby was with her, and the repair man was coming, yadda yadda.

This AP just extended in October for another year with us, so we've got 11 months left.

And yes, she's infant qualified.  CCAP made us get an infant qualified one.
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