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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You say you have no choice, but you do.  You are choosing to put more housework on the nanny.  It'll make your life significantly easier, so I understand why you are choosing to do it, but it is still a choice.[/quote]

OP here.    I have no choice in the sense that I cannot do the housework myself and cannot afford to pay for housecleaners.  I wish I could have the teacher-nanny like I had for my first child but I cannot afford her anymore and I don’t have a partner to help me around the house.  I need a housekeeper-nanny this time.  And yes, I know, my baby will not have the same advantages that my son had. [/quote]

Interesting.   Many parents pay daycare, can't afford a maid and do their chores themselves.  Is it a question of not being physically capable of taking care of an apartment or not having time?[/quote]

OP here.  Then they are clearly better than me.  I simply can't do it after work - I know how tired I was when my older child was a newborn and can't imagine it as a single mother with an older child to care for at night.

And I will pay the nanny more on the very, very few days that my older child has a school holiday and I have to work.  For sick days for either child, I will stay home.  [/quote]

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