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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be honest with a new potential employer. Tell them that your current family cannot give you full time and that you have tried for a very long time to find supplemental income and that the only reason you are leaving is because you have responsibilities that must be met financially. Tell them that you are worried that they will be mad Andy not give you an accurate reference if they know you may leave. Tell them that if they imply that they are hiring you for morning only work that the reference will be accurate. Additionally, start getting a reference letter at the end in year one![/quote]

I am very very very thankful for your great idea about reference letter.
 Please don’t take me wrong what my new employer think about me if I tell them to lie.If I tell my new employer to tell my current employer that they are going to hire me only for mornings
I really like your both ideas but I prefer reference letter. I will be glad if new employer tell my current employer they wants to hire me only for mornings. But I think maybe they think ( my new employer)that I want them to lie. What’s your thoughts [/quote]

I would be direct with a potential new employer. Tell them that you have tried for a year to find consistent supplemental income have have not been able to do so. Then tell them that you mentioned needing full time work I told your current boss that you may start looking for a full time position and that your boss became angry and that you are worried that she may give a poor reference based on her desire to keep you. I would NOT ask potential new employer to lie, but give them the option to say that they are looking for morning help in order to ensure an accurate reference. Do not ask them to do that, simply offer it as an option. Here is the question that you need to be prepared to answer: Why did you accept a position that doesn’t pay enough to live on?  I would be worried that you would continue to look for something better even if you did accept. But the fact that you’ve been there for three years will help alleviate some of that concern, but not all.  [/quote]

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