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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Former AP here.

She can do what she pleases with her own pictures, even if you don't like it. She's young and if she wants to show how cute she is etc, that's none of your business.

However there's no way she should put a pic of your daughter there and I'd ask her to remove it. And advise her to keep her instagram private for more safety.[/quote]

I'm the PP with a preteen DD who would have a problem with an AP posting racy pix on her public instagram (or even her private instagram if DD knew about it or followed it - and DD does have that kind of connected relationship with her APs now that she and her friends all use instragram).  Sure, an AP can do what she pleases with her own pictures, but if it sends a terrible message to my DD, it is my business, and I can do what I please with her (ask her to stop/remove them and rematch if she doesn't).  (as an aside:  all employers, not just HF, are going to Google you and may be put off by this kind of online, public presence - so even apart from safety issues, it's just dumb to present yourself that way, in a public account).

DD is at an impressionable age in terms of learning about how to present herself to others.  I can even see some girls a year or two older than her starting with the bikini pix while pouting and looking off to the side pix (ew).   We talk (DD and I) about what kind of image that presents.  There is no way I want an AP (to whom my DD inevitably looks up each year) openly presenting herself that way if there is any chance DD will see it.  It would be a big no-go for me.  I have not matched with girls whose public online profiles fit into this category and I surely would not accept it as a new-found habit after I matched.

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