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[quote=Anonymous]Thank you both for your feedback. As I mentioned before, I do like the family (a whole lot) and honestly, I don’t want to start over with a new family and not to mention, I’m in a share. It’s hard finding a good family that you get along with and feel comfortable with. They don’t treat me like I’m just an employee but a person- we have a really good relationship, which is why it’s so hard. Recently, I started telling them every time she would misbehave so that they know it’s almost everyday, which I’m sure they know. Before, I wouldn’t always tell them because I hate to give a parent disappointing news about their child’s behavior, everyday. But in this case (now), they need to know. I just don’t understand why parents allow this type of behavior. Your kid will respect you and others, so much more. And as someone who’s been in this field forever, it’s never to early to discipline your child in a way that it teaches them right from wrong and why listening is important- to prevent you from getting hurt. Aside from that, aren’t you embarrassed when you call your child to come back and they keep going? Aren’t you terrified that you may not get to them in time? I understand us nannies work for you, but you make our job so much harder, when you don’t try to work with us. We don’t know everything, but some of us, who’ve been doing this for years, knows a thing or two. I’m not trying to tell them how to parent but I want to keep their child safe and to ensure that, we need to work together! This is really bothering me and I guess I will have to do one last sit down and if things don’t change, I may have to part ways. The child’s safety is my #1 priority. However, I have to think about myself as well. God forbid a tradegy happened, that would stick with me forever. I’m glad to know I’m not alone. I was scared to post about this because I seen how chewed up people get here lol. But I really don’t know what else to do and as she gets older, it’s going to continue to get worse- and MB is expecting. [/quote]
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