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[quote=Anonymous]In our experience with two kids/two shares: 1) Not at all--we never had the same hours. All hours should be laid out in the contract and consistent, though. 2) We preferred this (and had it both times) but know people who like different ages too. I think naps and activities are easier with same-age shares. 3) Experienced nanny is important, but not necessarily experienced with a share (though it definitely helps). I would not start a brand-new nanny with a share, because it is harder than working for one family. 4) This is probably the most important thing--you need to be generally aligned on values and big parenting choices. The shares that we know that have imploded have always been due to family mismatch, not due to issues with the caregiver. If two families are very different in philosophies about raising children, it can also put the nanny in a tough spot. You don't need to be close friends with the other family (and in fact it might be easier if you're not!) but you are joint employers and should have a solid relationship with them. HTH![/quote]
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