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[quote=Anonymous]You don't need incontrovertible proof to fire her. Just keep that in mind. I would also be angry at the agency, and tell them that they don't need incontrovertible proof either, and that you would hope that now that they've gotten a THIRD report, they won't send her out on interviews if she doesn't quit it.

Second, you talked to her and she no longer smells of smoke. That's all the proof I'd need that you were right about the smoking in the first place. If you see her every morning and every evening, then I would keep her on for now, but I might say something along these lines, "Larla, I'm not sure what you've done differently, but I haven't noticed the cigarette odor over the last few days. I really appreciate it! I did want to let you know, though, that second- or third-hand smoke is an absolute deal-breaker for me when it comes to someone holding my baby. I'm sure you can understand that. Hopefully it won't come up again, and we won't have to worry about it!"[/quote]

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