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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be more concerned with the fact that she is possibly lying to you. [/quote] This. This is deeply problematic given the context you now have (that two previous employers complained of this--and presumably, to the nanny as well as to the agency). I would honestly look for a new nanny, however wonderful she may be. And I would be asking the agency for the fee back. I don't disagree with the PP about the shame of addiction and issues with hiding it, but if losing two jobs where this was a factor has not prompted a change in behavior, I don't think it's likely that it will magically get fixed now. Absolutely I wouldn't want my child riding in the car of a smoker given the thirdhand smoke research. The smoking (however occasional) + lying combination would make this a dealbreaker for me.[/quote]
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