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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, a couple of other relevant details... I'm struggling because it's not clearly smoke, because there's also a perfume smell. I think it's smoke covered with perfume, but I could be wrong. It could just be a musky perfume. And all of the circumstances around this nanny point to her not being a smoker, which really makes me second-guess myself. Also, unfortunately we had to fire our prior nanny for excessive cell phone use and lack of engagement, so I don't want to fire this nanny because she's perfect in every way and I don't want to disrupt my child's care again. We talked to a lot of candidates before we found this one, and we were working with an agency and I think they would've screened for smoking. We didn't discuss smoking at the interview because I just assumed no professional nanny with great references would smoke. Just wondering what a reasonable path forward is if I suspect smoking, but I'm not sure, and I don't want to offend the nanny but would like her to change clothes if she is in fact smoking? [/quote]
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