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[quote=Anonymous]OP you are the mom, when you are nursing just go to your room and close the door. Before that tell her" while I nurse my baby coukd you wash or be at your phone, we will be back soon" be direct, talk, communicate. I think you two need to communicate more. I'm sure you are a great mom and she a great nanny. But that baby only has 1 mom, nanny comes and goes, stays in a nice part of every child's heart. But you and your husband fill all your sons heart. You will see him walk, learn, talk, get good or bad grades, get a gf, get married. Only you and your husband will witness aaaalll those wonderful things.
I think your nanny needs better manners or she is like me. When a parent is at home from my experience they don't wanna be with thier baby but the baby cries and wants to and I feel bad. So I try to distract him, that's why I'm there, to be a nanny. The only way baby doesn't go reaching for her if mom shuts her bedroom door. I understand some parents wants some alone time.
 When I said your nanny could be like me, I meant that I try to be with the baby, I'm getting paid for that, to make him happy, safe and that stage of life, to be a friend. But now with my experience I'm not stopping my charge anymore if he wants to go with mommy. In my job she works in the living room and the toddler craves for her. And I just let him be. I don't care. It's that moms fault you can't get work done. Now she goes to her bedroom and shuts the door. And me and my charge are fine. 
Next time I'm never gonna take jobs that there's parents working at home. I hate it but my charge is going to daycare soon so yeah. Meh[/quote]

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