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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had a nanny for about 7  years.  She started as my oldest boys night nanny basically right after birh.  She’s helped me raise my 3 kiddos and I appreciate it but she hasn’t been employed by us in 6 months and I still hear from her 2-3 times a week.  We moved about six months ago and we had to let her go.  We have her 3 months severance pay and she fairly quickly found another position she seems to enjoy.  Yet she still texts me several times a week and asks how the kids are doing.  She’s driven up 3 times to visit my children, which I’m grateful for but I find her inability to let go off and concerning.  I truly believe to an extent she thinks they’re her child.  She has two adult children and I know she wanted a third but had to have a hysterectomy due to cancer and couldn’t have a third.  I really sympathize with her but I want to make it clear to her we need to have boundaries.  She is no longer involved in my children’s life as our employee so texting me non-stop can’t happen.  Help me find a kind but firm way to verbalize this to our ex-nanny. [/quote]

Wow, you are one ugly woman, OP.

Seeing your children three times in six months after seven years of being in their lives is good for your children.  It is bad enough your poor kids have such a ugly bitch for a mother - let then know that they were truly loved by one good woman at least.

- signed, an MB.  [/quote]

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