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[quote=Anonymous]Kids who are raised in a home with relaxed semi-nudity frequently don't develop as many hang ups as other children.  I've assisted several charges with their hair, and it's never been a big deal to me (and they asked for help, so it wasn't a big deal to them).  My hair is incredibly thick and curly, and I wasn't able to work my fingers through it without breaking a lot until I was in eighth grade, so I also understand why kids may ask.

I'm not a fan of forcing privacy or making a child feel self-conscious.  Every person decides what the comfort level is with every other individual, and it's not up to me to decide that for people who are mentally capable of deciding for themselves.

The issue with basic hygiene for herself is tricky.  She should be bathing without help.  If she has dental issues (like an expander and braces at the same time), I can see requesting help for the books and crannies.  But she does need to be learning how to do everything for herself, and learning to ask for a check if she's unsure of whether it's done adequately.[/quote]

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