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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is important to talk about the caregiver - let's call her Cindy - and tell your DD that Cindy loves her. Talk about some fun things they did together and speak well of Cindy. It would probably be better if you bit the bullet and let Cindy come over a couple of times. It is not about "not remembering" Cindy - of course she won't. But your child will feel abandoned and a little distrustful of the next caregiver if you never see or mention Cindy again. [/quote] This is OP. If we have Cindy come back, what should we/she do to have a proper goodbye with DD?[/quote] Just ask Cindy to tell DD what she won't be able to come over anymore but that she had so much fun with her and she loves her. I actually think it is far more important how you talk about Cindy - speak of her kindly and remind DD that Cindy would love to come see her but can't because of school or her job or whatever. [/quote]
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