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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is important to talk about the caregiver - let's call her Cindy - and [b]tell your DD that Cindy loves her. Talk about some fun things they did together and speak well of Cindy. [/b] It would probably be better if you bit the bullet and let Cindy come over a couple of times. It is not about "not remembering" Cindy - of course she won't. But your child will feel abandoned and a little distrustful of the next caregiver if you never see or mention Cindy again. [/quote] This. Talk about Cindy the way you would if she'd dropped dead. Kids are damaged when people they love just disappear and are never mentioned again - or worse, mentioned unkindly. It rocks their trust in themselves and their own emotions. [/quote]
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