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[quote=Anonymous]MB here. Earlier pp is right - it's time to talk w/ your employers about how they view these moments. That said, I think both adults can/should discipline and the scenario you describe is a perfect opportunity to back each other up and make sure the child knows that the expectations are the same no matter who is there. In our house we typically let the nanny be the one "in charge" whenever she's on the clock. But if I or my husband see a child not listening to her, or not behaving in a way that he or she knows they should, or being disrespectful to the nanny, etc... then we back the nanny up. When our nanny was new we stepped in sooner, because it gave her a chance to see how we handled things, but now all three of us approach things similarly.[/quote]
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