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[quote=Anonymous]You don't invite her. It's not your event. Just tell her you have plans with friends. Yes, your kids don't really have a choice not to go, but the AP is NOT equivalent of your kids. This is an awkward third wheel sort of situation. It's rude to ask your friends if she can tag along AND it's rude of her to come as a tag along. The trolls will possibly come out, but your au pair will NOT be inviting you to events with her friends (unless she wants you to pay her way). You're allowed your own plans too. For example, there's a great post on aupairmom about what treating an au pair as "family" means and most of the responses are reasonable (ie no trolls so far compared to the AP and nanny trolls here). [/quote]
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